The Yankees were knocked out of the baseball playoffs late in October, and being a Yankee fan, I was not at all happy about it.
My wife was also a little disappointed. My brother in law, who was watching the game with us, was a little too giddy about it, being the Mets fan that he is. I don’t think my daughter cared at all (seeing as she rarely looked up from her ITouch as she sat on the couch).
But I was kind of shocked at my 10 year old son’s reaction. He was really pissed. Very upset by the fact his baseball team was not going to the World Series.
Although I’m happy that there is a rooting interest here that I had a hand in cultivating, I don’t want either one of my kids to put too much emphasis on wins or losses, and to keep both in the context where they belong.
I’m hoping that someday both my kids realize that yeah, winning is fun, there’s nothing like it, but sometimes you learn your greatest lessons in life by those times that you just fell short.
Winners can win in a methodical, plodding fashion, day in and day out, that may not be interesting at all.
Losers, on the other hand, can fail in a spectacular manner. And some losses teach you right away what not to do next time, to make your chances of future wins a little better.
I gained much satisfaction watching the Yankees win the World Series last year. But towards the end of the last game, it was a foregone conclusion. It became a matter of just waiting for it to happen.
This year, in the waning moments of the final playoff game, the Yankees practically had no shot. But they battled till the very end, giving great effort in what was probably a no-hope situation.
The latter did not give the desired outcome (a Yankee win), but I found the game just as compelling as when they won the Series.
For those of us that aren’t large profile, highly overpaid athletes, wins and losses are part of everyday life. The trick is to not get too high when you win, and not crash too hard when you lose.
And when you do lose, whether it be a sale, momentum, a game…take it in another direction, learn what can be done to get a better result.
Most of us, when it’s all said and done, will win at the game of life. The losses are only temporary setbacks, to be overcome.
Celebrate the winners. But remember, it’s always how you play the game that counts.
Here’s to the losers.